I’ll be buying the book from which this quote is excerpted. Wonderful stuff that bears reading two or three times to get the full meaning. If you’re not used to it, this can be difficult to wade through, but it’s worth the effort. Don’t be daunted by it, but wrestle with it and wring the meaning out!
While the function of the male image of God in an androcentric religious system is the chief focus of the feminist critique, there is another problem with this image that is separable from and yet buttresses its role in supporting patriarchy. When particular symbols for God become deeply established and familiar, they lose their transparency as symbols and come to be seen as descriptions of God that provide unique access to the nature of divine reality. Though this can happen with any much-used symbol, the image of God as male seems especially to function in this unconscious way. God’s maleness has been so completely taken for granted that it is even exempted from the philosophical injunction against ascribing positive attributes to God. Maimonides, for example, considers it illegitimate ever to characterize God in positive terms, for this might imply that God is similar to other existing things, Yet throughout his discussion of negative and positive attributes, Maimonides continually refers to God as He and Him without ever taking note of the fact that maleness is a positive trait, or applying to this attribute his doctrine of negation. In recent times, the anger and fear awakened by feminist attempts to alter male God-language similarly bespeak a profound, often previously unarticulated, attachment to this image, and a dread of losing along with it the very nature of God.
When a metaphor is assumed and defended on this level, it has ceased to be an image and had become an idol. The metaphor is no longer simply a way of pointing to God but is identified with God, so that any change in the image seems to defame or disparage God “himself.” The claim that only male language can be used for God — whether defended explicitly or disguised behind a liberal “what difference does this make, anyway?” — attributes ultimacy to particular male symbols. It then becomes maleness that is worshiped instead of God. While Jews are used to thinking of idols as pillars and stones, verbal idols can be every bit as powerful as sculpted ones — indeed, more powerful for being less visible. What will dislodge male idols however, is not hammers or fire but structural changes in the patriarchal system and the concurrent creation of new metaphors that lead the imagination down untrodden paths.
(From “Standing Again at Sinai: Judaism from a Feminist Perspective” by Judith Plaskow, 1990, HarperCollins, pp127-8)